Estimated costs
Ask each provider for an itemized quote. Cemetery and monument fees are often separate.
- Direct cremationEstimate
- $1,500–$3,500
- Cremation with serviceEstimate
- $4,000–$8,000
- Traditional burialEstimate
- $10,000–$20,000
- Green burialEstimate
- $3,000–$8,000
Quick facts
Good to know: Keep a small ‘decision list’. It reduces repeat conversations.
A steady plan
Choose a point person to track calls, costs, and next steps.
Decide the shape of the service: private, small, or larger gathering.
Write down 3 priorities (comfort, tradition, budget). Use them to guide choices.
First steps to reduce stress
Ask the provider what they need from you today vs later.
Confirm timing: pickup, permits, and any service date you’re considering.
If family is traveling, consider a short delay and a later memorial.
Paperwork most people need
Death certificates (ask how many).
Obituary/service details (if you’re sharing publicly).
Insurance / benefits documentation (if applicable).
How to keep decisions in your hands
Ask for the price list and an itemized estimate.
If you’re unsure, ask: “Can you email this to me?”
You can say: “We’re not deciding that today.”
Not sure what to do next? Text us and we’ll help you work through it.
Text us for guidanceThis guide is general information, not legal, financial, or medical advice. Laws, fees, and rules change and can vary by county. Before you act, confirm the details with your funeral provider, the state or county office, or a licensed professional.