Estimated costs
Ask each provider for an itemized quote. Cemetery and monument fees are often separate.
- Direct cremationEstimate
- $1,500–$3,500
- Cremation with serviceEstimate
- $4,000–$8,000
- Traditional burialEstimate
- $10,000–$20,000
- Green burialEstimate
- $3,000–$8,000
Quick facts
Good to know: Ask for an itemized price list early.
Tip: You can pause decisions you don’t feel ready for.
A calm starting point
Pick 1 trusted person to help make calls and keep notes.
Choose a provider (funeral home or cremation provider). They can guide the logistics.
Start a short list: what matters most (faith/tradition, service style, budget, timing).
Good to know: You don’t need to decide everything today.
First 24–72 hours
If the death occurred at home
If hospice is involved, call the hospice nurse first. They can guide the next steps.
If not under hospice care, you may need to call 911 or the non-emergency line.
Gather basics: legal name, date of birth, address, parents’ names, SSN (if available), veteran status.
Caution: If you feel pressured, it’s okay to slow the pace and ask for details in writing.
Hospice was involved
The hospice nurse will pronounce death and help with paperwork.
They can coordinate with the funeral home for transport.
Take your time. There’s no rush to make immediate decisions.
No hospice involvement
Call 911. They’ll send someone to pronounce death.
A medical examiner or coroner may be involved depending on circumstances.
Once released, you can contact a funeral home for transport.
If the death occurred at a hospital
Hospital staff will handle the initial paperwork.
Ask about their morgue timeline and when you need to select a funeral home.
You can take time to visit and say goodbye before transport.
Cremation choices
You can hold a service before or after cremation. Both are common.
Ask what is included: transportation, permits, basic container, return of ashes.
If you want a viewing, ask about additional costs and timing.
Burial choices
Cemetery costs can include: plot, opening/closing, outer burial container, and fees.
Ask whether a vault/liner is required and what your options are.
If you’re planning a service, confirm schedule availability early.
Paperwork most people need
Death certificates (often multiple).
Disposition authorization (handled with the provider).
Insurance / benefits paperwork (if applicable).
A short list of accounts to notify (bank, employer, subscriptions).
Consumer rights
Ask for itemized pricing and take a moment before deciding.
You can compare providers. Even one comparison can help.
It’s okay to ask: “What’s optional?” and “What can wait?”
Not sure what to do next? Text us and we’ll help you work through it.
Text us for guidanceThis guide is general information, not legal, financial, or medical advice. Laws, fees, and rules change and can vary by county. Before you act, confirm the details with your funeral provider, the state or county office, or a licensed professional.
